All-woman scantily clad dancing
teams entertain the spectators during NBA (National Basketball Association) basketball
games. Beautiful women entertain the spectators with their dance moves during
IPL (Indian Premier League) cricket matches. East is no different from the West.
Indian movies provide voluptuous
women in their half naked glory to stimulate the carnal senses of their
audience. The video clip in the endnotes will endorse this thought.1
Then there are Miss City, Miss
Country, Miss World and Miss Universe pageants. The Miss Universe pageant
apparently attracts 1 billion television viewers – very successful indeed.2
The competition format includes a swimsuit round, although one wonders the
wisdom behind this.
Women voluntarily and sensuously dance
provocatively in movies and sports events, and willingly participate in beauty
pageants. They are not forced into it. It is their free choice. It seems that
women desire being sex objects.
It doesn’t end there.
Some parents are exceedingly obsessive of their minor children’s participation in
child beauty pageants. This is an unethical practice. Because it unethically
hyper-sexualizes minors, France decided to ban child beauty pageants.3
But it’s not just the pageant
that’s the culprit; the parents who force their minor children into child
beauty pageants are the greater culprits. It seems that parents want their
children to be sex objects.
With celebrities paving the way,
our women - young and old alike, in their daily walk of life, dress up or dress
down, depending on their mood and the occasion. A walk into the public square
provides a visual of various women in their glamorous attire revealing skin in
proportion to their moral conviction.
Women voluntarily dress up or
dress down. They are not forced into it. It is their free choice. It seems that
women like the idea of being sex objects.
However, some women may not
consider sensuous dances or wearing revealing attire as having sexual connotations.
They simply dress as a matter of fact, albeit sensuously.
Science reveals that [heterosexual]
men are sexually aroused by attractive women, “three decades of research on men's sexual arousal show patterns that
clearly track sexual orientation -- gay men overwhelmingly become sexually
aroused by images of men and heterosexual men by images of women.” 4
When women provide men with visual treats of their body, either in person or
through the media, the sexual arousal of a man is simply swift. This is a fact.
Is it wrong of women to be
sexually provocative in their attire and attitude? The answer is in the woman’s
religious and moral conviction.
However, provocative dressing and
sensuous dancing exhibits the woman as a sex object, for they are sexually portrayed
and thus attract people. But the woman decides whether to dress provocatively
or not.
1 Timothy 2: 9-10 stresses the
notion of modest dressing in a Christian girl / woman. Provocative attire is
opposed by the Bible. Therefore, a Christian woman should decide what is modest
and what is not. This decision should preferably involve her family and their
collective understanding of the Bible.
Whatever the case may be, common
sense suggests that the woman ought to err on the side of safety than on the
side of danger.
But some men think it is appropriate
to insult (eve tease) and even rape a woman because she has provoked them into
a mood of insult and/or rape. Is it appropriate for a man to eve tease, insult,
or rape a woman because of her provocative dressing? No. Why?
Life is sacred. Life is sacred
because God is the author of life. Life is sacred because man is made in the
image of God (Genesis 1: 27).
Furthermore, God has mandated
that life not be damaged explicitly or implicitly (cf. Exodus 20: 13-17; Mark
12: 31). It is the sacred responsibility of a man to uphold the dignity of his
neighbor. Therefore, man cannot and should not insult, eve tease, or rape a
woman at any cost.
Even if the woman dresses
inappropriately or provocatively, man does not have any rhyme or reason to
violate the sanctity of a woman.
For instance, a motorist cannot
run over a pedestrian crossing the street even if the pedestrian was unaware of
the oncoming vehicle. The driver of the vehicle is expected to do all that he
can to prevent any sort of injury upon the blundering pedestrian.
Therefore, man displays his
hypocrisy, depravity and moral bankruptcy when he rapes a woman and subsequently
blames her for the rape. Man’s role in the society is not to inflict harm upon
his neighbor, but to care and to protect his neighbor – in this case, a woman –
even if she is provocatively dressed.
Should women be compelled to
dress modestly so to save themselves from having crimes committed against them?
No. Freedom is essential to every human being, for God created mankind with
freewill. So women ought to have freedom to choose their attire.
In some cases, the society
imposes restrictions upon our attire. Some Islamic societies impose strict to
moderate regulations on women’s dress code. They prohibit exposure to a great
extent.
Is freedom unlimited? Can the
woman do whatever she wants? No. The woman is always subordinate to and dependent
on God. Hence, she should abide by the teachings of the all-knowing God. If God
requires the woman to be dressed modestly, then modest attire it is.
But how is ‘modest attire’
defined? The Bible defines modest attire through these words, “The women should be dressed quietly, and
their demeanour should be modest and serious. The adornment of a Christian
woman is not a matter of an elaborate coiffure, expensive clothes or valuable
jewellery, but the living of a good life” (1 Timothy 2: 9-10, PHILLIPS).
The overriding principle is that
the incessant pursuit of a woman is not in garments or its accessories, but in
godliness. This principle ought to govern her choice of attire.
Woman primarily makes herself
attractive in God’s eyes. God, whether we like it or not, does not judge based
on external appearances, but HE judges the disposition of the heart. While mild
accentuation of the physical appearance is acceptable, the woman cannot and
should not be consumed with self-glorification. Instead God should be glorified
in and through her physical appearance.
Should women dance provocatively?
No. Provocative dancing immersed in sexual innuendoes, and portraying woman as
sex objects, is inappropriate, and hence unacceptable.
Should women participate in
beauty pageants? Events that personify women as sex-objects ought not to be
pursued. Importantly parents should not push their children, especially the
minors, into beauty pageants. I wish all countries follow France’s example and restrict
child beauty pageants.
May godly wisdom govern us as we
lead our lives to glorify God.
Endnotes:
1 http://www.storypick.com/damaging-truth-indian-entertainment-industry-doesnt-want-know/
2 http://www.examiner.com/article/miss-universe-draws-close-to-one-billion-viewers-crowns-miss-venezuela
3 http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2013/09/22/beauty-pageants-children--ban/2842431/
4 http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2003/06/030613075252.htm
Useful read/view:
http://www.gotquestions.org/dress-modestly.html
http://www.storypick.com/damaging-truth-indian-entertainment-industry-doesnt-want-know/